With Determination To Succeed
Lance Armstrong won the Tour de France so many times, despite the bitterness of the French press that tried to discredit him time and again, that it astonishes us. Cancer reduced him to the weakest he had ever been, but he rebuilt his body and became the unbelievable champion that he is through sheer will to live.
He proved himself to be a champion racer. He did not quite make it to champion father. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father.
Nevertheless, champion though he was on the bicycle, he was a dud when it came to relationships and marriage. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father. If he had been a champion husband he would have used that will power to work on his marriage and not leave a string of failed marriages and relationships behind him. His legitimate children would still have a full time father, and his other children wouldn’t have to carry the stigma of illegitimacy around with them all of their lives.
Unfortunately he was himself illegitimate and abandoned by his own father. This may have contributed to his own lack of reliability when it came to relationships. Or perhaps it was his lack of faith as an agnostic. He is quoted as saying: At the end of the day, if there was indeed some body or presence standing there to judge me, I hoped I would be judged on whether I had lived a true life…
A true life? Excuse us? Yes, he was true to cycling. It does not seem that he was true in any way in his personal life. However, since we don’t know the man personally, it could be that he would have been true had his wives been true. We don’t know who was at fault, but if he is like the majority of men, and especially since he had to be gone much of the time to pursue his career, it is likely that he didn’t meet his wives’ and girlfriends’ emotional needs – essential for women.
Every marriage should strive to reach the arte level, the Greek word for excellence. “We have already achieved it” says the newlywed who is still starry-eyed and the truth hasn’t hit the fan yet. “We’re doing fine,” says the husband who isn’t meeting his wife’s emotional needs. “I gave up trying,” says the wife who has given up hope.
That’s what our Love Relationship System is all about – showing couples how to reach that level of arte or close to it so that their marriages will stay strong and secure.
By doing that you can do him one better and preserve your own marriage and give your children parents that raise them to be solid, secure and trustworthy adults. We give you the tools and the keys for doing just that at www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com: separate tools both for men and for women. Come join us now for a sparkling future in your marriage.
Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com
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Posted: June 29th, 2010 under Home & Family.
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